Perspective Can Shift in an Instant


 You always have a choice in how you perceive things, whether that feels like reality or not. Sometimes it all depends on the lenses you’re looking through, where you’re standing or where you’re looking. Take for example this photo…I am standing still on my porch, if I look straight ahead I see two different landscapes. Glancing out my right eye it looks like doom and gloom with the stormy clouds lingering. Glancing out my left eye it’s hope and happiness with blue skies rolling in. I love watching the wonders of a thunderstorm, they can roll in so quickly and cause all kinds of noise and chaos. 


I sat, watched and listened as the thunder rolled, the rain fell, the clouds darkened and then as fast as it started the blue skies began to creep back in. I thought to myself this is just like my life! Sometimes we have to sit in the chaos and our big feelings and it can feel overwhelming and as if it’ll never get better. But maybe just maybe, if you look to your left you’ll see better days ahead. Trust that this is only a moment in time and things can and will get better in time. 


It may not happen as quickly as a Montana summer thunderstorm but rest assured bluer skies are on their way, so keep your eyes and heart open!! 





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